{"id":9102,"date":"2015-05-18T09:16:23","date_gmt":"2015-05-18T16:16:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=9102"},"modified":"2018-05-15T09:56:49","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T16:56:49","slug":"bipolar-disorder-and-relationships-when-i-have-to-ask-myself-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/bipolar-disorder-and-relationships-when-i-have-to-ask-myself-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Bipolar Disorder and Relationships: When I have to ask myself, should I stay or should I go…….."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"crazy<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

My answer is completely dependent on how the other person is affecting my bipolar disorder!<\/span> <\/strong><\/p>\n

I’m at a cafe answering my coaching inquiries and heard these song lyrics:<\/p>\n

Loving you was never good for me.<\/em><\/p>\n

I’ve lived in that world with a few men and I’m very happy to say that I stopped the behavior 100%.\u00a0 I learned that having someone in my life who makes my bipolar disorder worse isn’t an option.<\/p>\n

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I have a zero tolerance policy for ANYONE who willingly makes my bipolar disorder worse. It’s not about them-\u00a0 I don’t control the behavior of others, but I sure as heck can decide to stay or go.<\/p>\n

I made the decision to GO! GO! GO! when my bipolar disorder is triggered.<\/p>\n

This was years ago and I’m happy and stable now. So much of my bipolar disorder was about my<\/em> behavior around romantic relationships. When I removed the equation, I started to heal and became more stable.<\/p>\n

You can do the same. Should I stay or should I go is another great song lyric. Life became so simple for me when I left the people who hurt me. Life is even better now that I don’t let them into my life at all!<\/p>\n

Julie<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\"crazy<\/a><\/p>\n

My answer is completely dependent on how the other person is affecting my bipolar disorder! <\/p>\n

I’m at a cafe answering my coaching inquiries and heard these song lyrics:<\/p>\n

Loving you was never good for me.<\/p>\n

I’ve lived in that world with a few men and I’m very happy to say that I stopped the behavior 100%. I learned that having someone in my life who makes my bipolar disorder worse isn’t an option.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

I have a zero tolerance policy for ANYONE who willingly makes my bipolar disorder worse. It’s not about them- I don’t control the behavior of others, but I sure as heck can decide to stay or go.<\/p>\n

I made the decision to GO! GO! GO! when my bipolar disorder [ Read More ]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9102"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9102"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9102\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11203,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9102\/revisions\/11203"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}