{"id":8465,"date":"2014-08-25T17:51:33","date_gmt":"2014-08-26T00:51:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=8465"},"modified":"2018-05-15T09:56:53","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T16:56:53","slug":"100-lesbian-except-when-manic-a-guest-blog-from-selina-glater","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/100-lesbian-except-when-manic-a-guest-blog-from-selina-glater\/","title":{"rendered":"100% Lesbian.. Except When Manic: A Guest Blog from Selina Glater"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Selina<\/a><\/p>\n

100% Lesbian, Except When Manic by Selina Glater<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0 It<\/span> <\/strong>seems that sexual orientation doesn\u2019t change. You either know that you are heterosexual, or that you are gay, or that you might be both. In my opinion, I\u00a0believe we are hard wired in our sexual orientation. I know that I’m a lesbian, but with one relatively simple wrinkle. <\/span><\/p>\n

I’m also an individual with bipolar disorder.<\/span> <\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Double whammy you say. You had better believe that it is! When I’m manic, I do many outlandish things such as talking too rapidly, spending more money than I have, and\u00a0 you guessed it,\u00a0 jumping into bed with men. <\/span><\/p>\n

Normally, the idea of having sex with men is not exactly a turn on, but when manic all of my so called normal sexual tendencies as a lesbian fly out the window. This\u00a0is often normal behavior for someone who is manic. So, if you\u00a0consider yourself\u00a0a heterosexual person, but\u00a0you slept with someone of the same sex when you were manic, know that you’re just responding to the manic chatter in your head. <\/span><\/p>\n

Mania can change how we perceive things. But, don\u2019t get caught thinking that your sexual identity is dependent on your behavior during mania. It just isn\u2019t so! <\/span><\/p>\n

Selina<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

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A note from Julie: Here’s a nicely detailed bio of the amazing Selina!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Selina and I are working together on her coaching practice.\u00a0 I will add more details once her practice is open for new clients. She works with the community she writes about in this funny, but realistic blog. Please leave any comments you have in the comments section below and I will make sure she receives them. She can also answer any questions you have.\u00a0 If you would like more information about her upcoming coaching practice, please let me know as well.\u00a0 Selina and I met when I was the keynote speaker for the Monterey County Mental Health Commission Fiesta of Hope Dinner in California. Lucky me!<\/span><\/p>\n

*** BIO ***<\/p>\n

Selina I. Glater is a mental health advocate, writer, speaker, and coach. She is also a lesbian who advocates for LGBT rights. Selina lives with bipolar disorder daily and understands the difficulties that people with mental illness face first hand.\u00a0 <\/span><\/p>\n

She is also a registered music therapist and psychiatric rehabilitation therapist. <\/span><\/p>\n

Selina was the first consumer to be hired as the Coordinator of Self Help and Advocacy for Santa Barbara County Mental Health Services. She also served as the Director of Consumer Advocacy and Outreach for Sanctuary Psychiatric Centers of Santa Barbara. In 1994, \u00a0Selina was inducted into the California Governor’s Hall of Fame for People with Disabilities. She is a former governor’s appointee to the California State Mental Health Planning Council and currently serves as a Mental Health Commissioner on the Monterey County Mental Health Commission. <\/span><\/p>\n

Selina is the annual Master of Ceremonies for the popular, and stigma busting Fiesta of Hope dinner\u00a0that highlights individuals with mental illness and their contributions to the community. This event is sponsored by the Monterey County Mental Health Commission. Selina is currently working on a memoir of her experiences with bipolar disorder entitled, “The Bipolar Mistress.”<\/strong> She is also a gifted violinist and has won many awards for her performances. She has a B.A. Degree from Pepperdine University where she attended on a full music scholarship. Selina also has a M.A. Degree from the University of California, Santa Barbara where she won a university wide teaching award for excellence in education. She lives in Monterey, California with her beautiful Burmese cat, Miss Ruthie. Selina, and her partner Cheryl, have been together for 12 years.<\/span> <\/p>\n

\"MISS<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\"Selina<\/a><\/p>\n

100% Lesbian, Except When Manic by Selina Glater<\/p>\n

It seems that sexual orientation doesn\u2019t change. You either know that you are heterosexual, or that you are gay, or that you might be both. In my opinion, I believe we are hard wired in our sexual orientation. I know that I’m a lesbian, but with one relatively simple wrinkle. <\/p>\n

I’m also an individual with bipolar disorder. <\/p>\n

Double whammy you say. You had better believe that it is! When I’m manic, I do many outlandish things such as talking too rapidly, spending more money than I have, and you guessed it, jumping into bed with men. <\/p>\n

Normally, the idea of having sex with men is not exactly a turn on, but when [ Read More ]<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8465"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8465"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8465\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11260,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8465\/revisions\/11260"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}