{"id":615,"date":"2010-08-28T16:54:59","date_gmt":"2010-08-28T16:54:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=615"},"modified":"2018-05-15T10:00:11","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T17:00:11","slug":"reader-question-bipolar-disorder-and-anger","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/reader-question-bipolar-disorder-and-anger\/","title":{"rendered":"Reader Question: Bipolar Disorder and Anger"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Julie,<\/p>\n<p>I am going to court tomorrow, and I have been a mess, shakey, anxious, and frustrated at everybody around me.\u00a0 I feel like everything someone says is just irritating and worthless to me.\u00a0 I don&#8217;t&#8217; want to around anybody, but I know that is not healthy for me. I have been getting worse all week leading up to this stressful situation.\u00a0 I am worried that I am going to have a full blown depression episode.\u00a0 I cannot concentrate and am having trouble sleeping.<\/p>\n<p>Hi Colby,<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t it amazing what stress can do to our bodies and minds&#8230; I would be stressed too. It hits us harder- that&#8217;s for sure.\u00a0 It&#8217;s amazing that you are aware of your anger and frustration- this means you can keep it from ruining relationships and getting you into trouble. I was majorly irritated yesterday and even yelled at a friend- I felt terrible and then realized that is not the real me and I have to manage myself better. I suggest that you have a mantra to say the rest of the day. I am angry because I am stressed and I have bipolar disorder. I will NOT take this out on other people. They are not the problem. I will NOT ruin relationships. I have made it through many tough things and I will make it through this. I know when the court session is over I will feel differently. I can do this and I will. Now, what do I need to do right now to feel better.<\/p>\n<p>I talk to myself like this constantly- even with the stress is overwhleming. The truth is that you can&#8217;t get out of the court situation, so you might as well use it as a learning experience to see how well you can manage the anger. If I can keep myself from punching a wall- you can too!!! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>Julie<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hi Julie,<\/p>\n<p>I am going to court tomorrow, and I have been a mess, shakey, anxious, and frustrated at everybody around me. I feel like everything someone says is just irritating and worthless to me. I don&#8217;t&#8217; want to around anybody, but I know that is not healthy for me. I have been getting worse all week leading up to this stressful situation. I am worried that I am going to have a full blown depression episode. I cannot concentrate and am having trouble sleeping.<\/p>\n<p>Hi Colby,<\/p>\n<p>Isn&#8217;t it amazing what stress can do to our bodies and minds&#8230; I would be stressed too. It hits us harder- that&#8217;s for sure. It&#8217;s amazing that you are aware of your anger and frustration- this means you can keep it from ruining relationships and getting you into trouble. 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