{"id":5870,"date":"2012-08-23T10:50:39","date_gmt":"2012-08-23T17:50:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=5870"},"modified":"2018-05-15T09:58:21","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T16:58:21","slug":"reader-question-on-work-and-bipolar-disorder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/reader-question-on-work-and-bipolar-disorder\/","title":{"rendered":"Reader Question on Work and Bipolar Disorder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5874\" style=\"margin: 25px;\" title=\"Snoopy-working-from-home\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"196\" height=\"257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home.jpg 196w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home-114x150.jpg 114w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 196px) 100vw, 196px\" \/><\/a>Rachel read a blog post about work and bipolar disorder. Here is her question:<\/p>\n<p>**<\/p>\n<p>T<strong>hank You Julie. I have had so many jobs over the years, some more successful than others, but my illness always\u00a0seems to\u00a0get in my way. I have been sick for sev\u00a0 eral months again now,\u00a0 unemployed, but trying to get get better. I have the support of my husband, some understanding from my kids, but how do you forgive yourself? Rachel <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hi Rachel,<\/p>\n<p>I face what you are going through all of the time. I miss months and months of work- but it&#8217;s a certain kind of work. If I&#8217;m busy and have deadlines I do better. If the work all comes from my mind- such as writing a book on my own, I find it very difficult. Having bipolar disorder means we are going to lose time. I&#8217;ve lost so much I can&#8217;t even count it anymore. But you keep going.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Many, many people with bipolar disorder have trouble working.\u00a0 It&#8217;s simply an unfortunate trigger. I would talk to the kids and be completely honest about bipolar. You can tell them about me!\u00a0 I write books- I speak- I coach and I have friends- and work is still a very big struggle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You are Not alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You would never try to forgive yourself if you had cancer- there is no reason to have to forgive yourself when you have bipolar. Just keep going- sing massive praise to your awesome sounding husband and go easy on yourself. It&#8217;s a tough illness and not working is not your fault!\u00a0Work when you\u00a0can and go from there.<\/p>\n<p>Julie<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5874\" style=\"margin: 25px;\" title=\"Snoopy-working-from-home\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"196\" height=\"257\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home.jpg 196w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Snoopy-working-from-home-114x150.jpg 114w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 196px) 100vw, 196px\" \/><\/a>Rachel read a blog post about work and bipolar disorder. Here is her question:<\/p>\n<p>**<\/p>\n<p>Thank You Julie. I have had so many jobs over the years, some more successful than others, but my illness always seems to get in my way. I have been sick for sev eral months again now, unemployed, but trying to get get better. I have the support of my husband, some understanding from my kids, but how do you forgive yourself? Rachel <\/p>\n<p>Hi Rachel,<\/p>\n<p>I face what you are going through all of the time. I miss months and months of work- but it&#8217;s a certain kind of work. If I&#8217;m busy and have deadlines I do better. 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