{"id":26,"date":"2012-02-16T16:03:38","date_gmt":"2012-02-17T00:03:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/2007\/08\/08\/buck-up\/"},"modified":"2018-05-15T09:59:19","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T16:59:19","slug":"relationship-issues-get-it-going","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/relationship-issues-get-it-going\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Issues? Get it Going!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5022\" title=\"fingers\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-300x238.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"238\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-300x238.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-150x119.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-400x318.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers.jpg 453w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Have you ever gone through a tough time over a relationship issue? \u00a0Relationship problems whether with family, friends, partners or coworkers can be a real nightmare for people with bipolar disorder. We get hit much harder than people with more regulated brains.<\/p>\n<p>I know that things get totally out of proportion in my brain when something happens that I can\u2019t control. I feel like I will go crazy and that I need a solution right at that minute! I can\u2019t wait for anything and I need answers, answers, answers. I will call my friends and talk for hours about what is happening and what I\u2019m doing wrong and what the other person is thinking and what I should do and\u2026\u2026\u2026 it never ends! It\u2019s embarrassing and very tiring.\u00a0 And it makes it very hard to work.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve found that it\u2019s often up to the well me to just say:<\/p>\n<p>Buck up Julie! Get up and get going! Do your work!<\/p>\n<p>This helps cut through the bipolar fog that often takes over my brain during any type of relationship stress. Even when we get really sick, we have to work. So today, I am listening to myself and working. It took me a few hours to get here, but I\u2019m doing it. Buck up Julie! Will this work for you?<\/p>\n<p>Julie<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5022\" title=\"fingers\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-300x238.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"238\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-300x238.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-150x119.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers-400x318.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/fingers.jpg 453w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Have you ever gone through a tough time over a relationship issue? Relationship problems whether with family, friends, partners or coworkers can be a real nightmare for people with bipolar disorder. We get hit much harder than people with more regulated brains.<\/p>\n<p>I know that things get totally out of proportion in my brain when something happens that I can\u2019t control. I feel like I will go crazy and that I need a solution right at that minute! I can\u2019t wait for anything and I need answers, answers, answers. I will call my friends and talk for hours about what is happening and what I\u2019m doing wrong and what the other person is thinking and what I should do and\u2026\u2026\u2026 it never ends! It\u2019s embarrassing and very tiring. 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