{"id":2090,"date":"2010-12-30T20:47:51","date_gmt":"2010-12-30T20:47:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=2090"},"modified":"2018-05-15T10:00:06","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T17:00:06","slug":"here-are-my-new-years-truisms-for-2011","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/here-are-my-new-years-truisms-for-2011\/","title":{"rendered":"Here are my New Year&#8217;s Truisms for 2011"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"international_fireworks_2_b\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2091\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>What are your plans for tomorrow night? I hope that you can be with people, have fun and know that you are important to the world. I certainly want that for myself. Depression doesn&#8217;t want that for me &#8211; so I have come up with 2011 trusims that I am going to repeat to myself for the next few weeks- because of the pressures of the new year- because I turn 47 in a week and because I want 2011 to be better than any other year of my life. <\/p>\n<p>1. Dates don&#8217;t matter. 2010 and 2011 are the same thing. We just label them differently. <\/p>\n<p>2. Age doesn&#8217;t matter. I am the age I am. Nothing will ever change that. <\/p>\n<p>3. What happened last year is done- either positive or negative- fantastic or terrible. It&#8217;s done. <\/p>\n<p>4. Life can always get better. Life can be good. <\/p>\n<p>5. The things that bipolar says to me are not true. I can&#8217;t trust them and I have to <em>always<\/em> remember who I am on the inside and go from there. <\/p>\n<p>6. I am loved by many people. <\/p>\n<p>7. 2011 is a new opportunity to manage this illness more effectively and reach more goals and dreams. <\/p>\n<p>My brain wants to reject this even as I write it!  Depressoin can take every one of the above statments and make them UN truisms. I can&#8217;t listen. I&#8217;m going to put this list in my journal and read it when times are tough. <\/p>\n<p>What about you? Please don&#8217;t be hard on yourself for what happened in 2010.  Let&#8217;s be kind to ourselves and look at what we have accomplished. <\/p>\n<p>Julie <\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"international_fireworks_2_b\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-2091\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b-400x400.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/international_fireworks_2_b.jpg 700w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>What are your plans for tomorrow night? I hope that you can be with people, have fun and know that you are important to the world. I certainly want that for myself. Depression doesn&#8217;t want that for me &#8211; so I have come up with 2011 trusims that I am going to repeat to myself for the next few weeks- because of the pressures of the new year- because I turn 47 in a week and because I want 2011 to be better than any other year of my life. <\/p>\n<p>1. Dates don&#8217;t matter. 2010 and 2011 are the same thing. We just label them differently. <\/p>\n<p>2. Age doesn&#8217;t matter. I am the age I am. Nothing will ever change that. <\/p>\n<p>3. 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