{"id":2006,"date":"2010-12-12T00:18:53","date_gmt":"2010-12-12T00:18:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=2006"},"modified":"2018-05-15T10:00:07","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T17:00:07","slug":"lunch-with-my-friend-gayathri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/lunch-with-my-friend-gayathri\/","title":{"rendered":"Lunch with my friend Gayathri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just had lunch with my friend Gayathri. She is one of the most amazing people I know. She moved here from India in an arranged marriage over 20 years ago and just wrote her story in a new memoir.\u00a0 She had a lot of depression and anxiety when she was growing up. She moved to America with her new husband and a lot of expectations.\u00a0 Her descriptions of what it was like to go to a grocery store for the first time are amazing: &#8220;I never knew there were so many types of cereal!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Gayathri and I became friend through\u00a0NAMI (National Alliance on Mental\u00a0Illness)\u00a0seven years ago. We have been friends ever since.\u00a0Isn&#8217;t it great when you meet someone who understands what it&#8217;s like to have a mental illness? We have our own language. That is how I feel after I speak to a large\u00a0crowd and I talk to people afterwards and I\u00a0get to meet people like myself.<\/p>\n<p>Gayathri was in the psychiatric\u00a0ward\u00a0two times\u00a0after\u00a0she had her first child. She writes about\u00a0this in her book. The depression and anxiety simply became too much. I bet if you look at her\u00a0 you would think- how could she possibly be depressed! Well, those of us who get depressed come in all shapes and sizes. There is no particular look.<\/p>\n<p>I am thankful for Gayathri because she is there for me when I need her. Like today when it&#8217;s dark and rainy\u00a0outside and I feel dark and rainy inside.\u00a0 It&#8217;s so important to have friends who understand!<\/p>\n<p>You can read more about Gayathri at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.MindBeautiful.com\">www.MindBeautiful.com<\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_2007\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/gayathri-1-radio.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2007\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2007\" title=\"gayathri 1 radio\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/gayathri-1-radio-300x282.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"282\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/gayathri-1-radio-300x282.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/gayathri-1-radio-768x722.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/gayathri-1-radio-150x141.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/gayathri-1-radio-400x376.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/gayathri-1-radio.jpg 802w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-2007\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This is Gayathri when she was a guest on my radio show! <\/p><\/div>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just had lunch with my friend Gayathri. She is one of the most amazing people I know. She moved here from India in an arranged marriage over 20 years ago and just wrote her story in a new memoir. She had a lot of depression and anxiety when she was growing up. She moved to America with her new husband and a lot of expectations. Her descriptions of what it was like to go to a grocery store for the first time are amazing: &#8220;I never knew there were so many types of cereal!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Gayathri and I became friend through NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness) seven years ago. We have been friends ever since. Isn&#8217;t it great when you meet someone who understands what it&#8217;s like to have a mental illness? We have our own language. That is how I feel after I speak to a large crowd and I talk to people <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/lunch-with-my-friend-gayathri\/\">[ Read More ]<\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2006"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2006"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2006\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11773,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2006\/revisions\/11773"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2006"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2006"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2006"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}