{"id":1492,"date":"2010-08-12T16:36:16","date_gmt":"2010-08-12T16:36:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=1492"},"modified":"2018-05-15T10:00:12","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T17:00:12","slug":"people-you-love-who-cause-you-trouble-bp-trouble","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/people-you-love-who-cause-you-trouble-bp-trouble\/","title":{"rendered":"People you love who cause you trouble&#8230;  BP trouble&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am a huge fan of sports radio- actually, watching sports keeps me going on tough days. That is why I always remind myself to think like an athlete and just plow through the rough times work wise.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This morning- I heard an interview with a financial advisor who works with the world&#8217;s top athletes- the radio host asked him if he had ever fired a client. He said, &#8220;Yes. I simply told the guy &#8211; I don&#8217;t want to take on the headache that goes with working with you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This got me to thinking.\u00a0 Those of us with bipolar- and possibly those of us who love someone with the illness and don&#8217;t like the way they are treating us can have the same motto:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want to take on the\u00a0mood swings\u00a0that go with being around you. &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That is the ultimate definition of a trigger- if something or someone makes you ill- on either side of the illness, it&#8217;s your right to simply say NO MORE.<\/p>\n<p>Julie<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am a huge fan of sports radio- actually, watching sports keeps me going on tough days. That is why I always remind myself to think like an athlete and just plow through the rough times work wise. <\/p>\n<p>This morning- I heard an interview with a financial advisor who works with the world&#8217;s top athletes- the radio host asked him if he had ever fired a client. He said, &#8220;Yes. I simply told the guy &#8211; I don&#8217;t want to take on the headache that goes with working with you.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This got me to thinking. Those of us with bipolar- and possibly those of us who love someone with the illness and don&#8217;t like the way they are treating us can have the same motto:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want to take on the mood swings that go with being around you. &#8221;<\/p>\n<p>That is the ultimate definition of a trigger- if something or someone makes <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/people-you-love-who-cause-you-trouble-bp-trouble\/\">[ Read More ]<\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1492"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1492"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1492\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11852,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1492\/revisions\/11852"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1492"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1492"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1492"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}