{"id":138,"date":"2012-06-22T00:50:42","date_gmt":"2012-06-22T07:50:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/2008\/04\/04\/relief-for-parents\/"},"modified":"2018-05-15T09:58:23","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T16:58:23","slug":"relief-for-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/relief-for-parents\/","title":{"rendered":"Relief for Parents"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5485\" style=\"margin: 25px;\" title=\"dad\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1-300x243.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"243\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1-300x243.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1-150x122.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1.jpg 311w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Bipolar\u00a0has been terrible on my mom. She spent so many years trying to figure out how to help me. To be honest, <em>I <\/em>didn\u2019t know what would help me before I started my Health Cards!<\/p>\n<p>Things are so different now. Sometimes I get mad at her when she says, \u201cJulie, you\u2019re showing the signs of mania. You have to be careful. Are you doing something about it?\u201d I taught her to ask these questions and it helps, but I often just think, good god woman! Just leave me alone!<\/p>\n<p>I am a mess without her help though- she sees what I can\u2019t. We are a team.<\/p>\n<p>I still don\u2019t think my father really understands me- we live in different states. But I know he is trying. He has read my books and says, &#8220;I&#8217;m trying hard understand this Julie, but it&#8217;s\u00a0 just not easy for\u00a0 me.&#8221;\u00a0 I appreciate his honesty.<\/p>\n<p>I just realized that \u2018we live in different states\u2019 is a double entendre!<\/p>\n<p>You have to teach your family what you need- and as a family member you have to educate yourself fully in order to understand this darn complicated illness!<\/p>\n<p>Julie<\/p>\n<p>PS: Growing up my dad was a submarine officer and then a pilot.\u00a0 He is a very interesting man.\u00a0 (yes, all of my long hair is gone!)<\/p>\n<p>Click\u00a0on the link\u00a0to\u00a0download a PDF file of my article: <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/The-High-Jacked-House-Julie-A.-Fast.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">The High Jacked House by Julie A. Fast<\/a><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5485\" style=\"margin: 25px;\" title=\"dad\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1-300x243.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"243\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1-300x243.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1-150x122.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dad1.jpg 311w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Bipolar has been terrible on my mom. She spent so many years trying to figure out how to help me. To be honest, I didn\u2019t know what would help me before I started my Health Cards!<\/p>\n<p>Things are so different now. Sometimes I get mad at her when she says, \u201cJulie, you\u2019re showing the signs of mania. You have to be careful. Are you doing something about it?\u201d I taught her to ask these questions and it helps, but I often just think, good god woman! Just leave me alone!<\/p>\n<p>I am a mess without her help though- she sees what I can\u2019t. We are a team.<\/p>\n<p>I still don\u2019t think my father really understands me- we live in different states. But I know he is trying. 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