{"id":13219,"date":"2020-06-06T16:16:30","date_gmt":"2020-06-06T23:16:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=13219"},"modified":"2020-06-06T16:37:23","modified_gmt":"2020-06-06T23:37:23","slug":"panic-and-anxiety-from-wearing-a-mask-in-public","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/panic-and-anxiety-from-wearing-a-mask-in-public\/","title":{"rendered":"Panic and Anxiety from Wearing a Mask in Public"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-13220 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-400x533.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I lived in Japan for over three years in the \u201890s and regularly saw people wearing masks. It\u2019s a part of the Asian culture and has been for decades. When the flu would hit the schools, all of the masks would come out on the trains. \u00a0I was always told that people wore masks to prevent from spreading their own illness to others. If you love K-Pop as I do, masks being worn by dancers during a performance as a part of a stage costume is very common.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Masks have now come to our culture and I wish I could say I find wearing one easy. \u00a0Nope. It has not been easy at all! \u00a0My desire to wear a mask is there. \u00a0I don\u2019t want to get sick or make anyone else sick, but I can tell you that as a person with bipolar who also lives with severe anxiety, wearing a mask in public has been a nightmare!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>In case this is the same for you, I\u2019ve come up with a way for us to learn to wear masks without increasing our anxiety.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>1. Know that you&#8217;re not alone!<\/strong> I thought I was the only one going through this until I asked my Facebook community if anyone else had the anxiety problem. \u00a0People replied within minutes:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">Julie, I feel suffocated!\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">My normal claustrophobia is now a lot worse.\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\">I get hot and sweaty and can\u2019t breathe!<\/span><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>I feel so much better knowing it\u2019s not just me! I recently had to return an item at a UPS store. It was a simple procedure, but when combined with wearing the mask that always makes me act as though I can\u2019t breathe, it was a disaster! This was when I realized I have to find a way to live with masks.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>2. Regulate your breathing<\/strong>. Anxiety is a breathing issue. Regulating breathing is the number one way to reduce anxiety. We have a few options while wearing a mask in a store. One, walk back into the parking lot for a few minutes and breathe normally while talking to ourselves about keeping the breathing stable when we walk back into the store. We can also pause in the moment inside the store and say to ourselves, \u201cI can breathe just fine. The mask doesn\u2019t prevent breathing. This is anxiety. All of this mask wearing is new in my culture. I will adapt. Right now, I am going to self regulate my breathing!\u201d<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><strong>3. Give yourself time.<\/strong> Please don\u2019t avoid going places if the mask makes you anxious! \u00a0Masks will be a part of our future now. We do need to learn to wear them without anxiety. If you stop going out during the first round of wearing these masks, it will affect your movement if we are asked to wear masks again in the future! Going out is healthy.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Let\u2019s prepare ahead for a life of using masks.<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\">Writing this blog led to my thinking about change in general. \u00a0People all over the world had to change behaviors over night and in many cases, people lost their work and even their income. We were then asked to put a mask over our face in order to protect society. These changes were stressful for stable people &#8211; it\u2019s pretty obvious to me now that these changes might create absolutely havoc in the bipolar brain. And yet, I didn\u2019t see it this way in the moment. Instead, I was hard on myself for being WEAK and unable to just BREATHE! It took me much longer than you would expect to connect the dots that wearing the mask was creating intense anxiety. \u00a0My mind was in one place- I want to wear this mask and I will wear this mask to keep myself and everyone else safe during a pandemic, but my brain? Oh, it had a mind of its own.<\/div>\n<div class=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\">What is on my face!<\/div>\n<div class=\"\">I can\u2019t breathe!<\/div>\n<div class=\"\">Danger! Danger!<\/div>\n<div class=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\">Anxiety is complex. It\u2019s a combination of the physical as well as the mental. It can take over the mind and body in seconds. The way to counteract this anxiety reaction is to prepare ahead. Anxiety responds really well to natural treatments such as breathing and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bphope.com\/blog\/cbt-depression-thoughts\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">cognitive behavioral therapy<\/a>. \u00a0I definitely have to work on my mask wearing ability.<\/div>\n<div class=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\">\u00a0I asked my mother if she had any breathing problems or anxiety due to wearing the mask. She said, \u201cNo! Do you?\u201d<\/div>\n<div class=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"\">I\u2019m glad I asked. It\u2019s a reminder that my bipolar\/anxious brain simply isn\u2019t like a regular brain. I need to remind myself constantly that I am different and might need more help in new situations, such as suddenly having to cover my mouth in order to go into the grocery store!<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h1><em><strong><span style=\"color: #993366;\">Julie\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/em><\/h1>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-13220 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-400x533.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/julie-mask-2020-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p> I lived in Japan for over three years in the \u201890s and regularly saw people wearing masks. It\u2019s a part of the Asian culture and has been for decades. When the flu would hit the schools, all of the masks would come out on the trains. I was always told that people wore masks to prevent from spreading their own illness to others. If you love K-Pop as I do, masks being worn by dancers during a performance as a part of a stage costume is very common. Masks have now come to our culture and I wish I could say I find wearing one easy. Nope. It has not been easy at all! My desire to wear a mask is there. I don\u2019t want to get <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/panic-and-anxiety-from-wearing-a-mask-in-public\/\">[ Read More ]<\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":13220,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13219"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13219"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13219\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13224,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13219\/revisions\/13224"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/13220"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13219"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13219"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13219"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}