{"id":12848,"date":"2019-08-08T17:40:48","date_gmt":"2019-08-09T00:40:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=12848"},"modified":"2019-08-08T17:43:51","modified_gmt":"2019-08-09T00:43:51","slug":"julie-can-you-be-more-positive-pleaaasssseeeeee","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/julie-can-you-be-more-positive-pleaaasssseeeeee\/","title":{"rendered":"Julie, can you be more positive!  PLEAAASSSSEEEEEE!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-12853 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-400x400.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know I can write a lot about what is not working in our current mental health system. I know that I talk about the abuse many family members and partners experience if a loved one has untreated bipolar. I know that I have compassion for all of us who have the illness, especially if we also have secondary diagnoses such as psychosis.<\/p>\n<p>Where are the positives? Oh, there are SO MANY. I am alive and you are alive. I know that I have bipolar disorder and a psychosis disorder. This helped me figure out why my life was so chaotic for so many years. I call this my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bphope.com\/bipolar-stories-video-blog\/video-the-day-i-was-diagnosed-with-bipolar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">get out of jail free card<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>I am so thankful for my diagnoses. They saved me. For 15 years, I thought I was the problem. Now, I can figure out if my current melt down is illness or personal choice. This really, really makes a difference in my life for the better!<\/p>\n<p>Another positive? There are books that I can read and learn from every day- at my fingertips. I recently <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bphope.com\/pets\/bipolar-losing-pet-ways-to-stay-stable\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lost my beloved cat<\/a>. It was so intense. I love\/loved her so much. I got online and found help! One vet blog said, &#8220;When you lose a pet, don&#8217;t worry about how intense your feelings are just because it is an animal. Instead, remember that love is love.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We are so lucky! Help at our fingertips! This is new for many of us.<\/p>\n<p>There are helplines and hotlines to call. There are people like Martin Baker who write about friendship and mental health and how important online friends can be.<\/p>\n<p>There are easy ways to figure out what is happening when we get sick- we just type in our symptoms and right \u00a0before our eyes, a variety of explanations that we can then peruse.<\/p>\n<p>I need to remember to write about the positives. There are many.<\/p>\n<p>Julie<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-12853 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/dreamstime_xxl_65371691-400x400.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I know I can write a lot about what is not working in our current mental health system. I know that I talk about the abuse many family members and partners experience if a loved one has untreated bipolar. I know that I have compassion for all of us who have the illness, especially if we also have secondary diagnoses such as psychosis.<\/p>\n<p>Where are the positives? Oh, there are SO MANY. I am alive and you are alive. I know that I have bipolar disorder and a psychosis disorder. This helped me figure out why my life was so chaotic for so many years. I call this my <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bphope.com\/bipolar-stories-video-blog\/video-the-day-i-was-diagnosed-with-bipolar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">get out of jail free card<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>I am so thankful for my diagnoses. They saved me. 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