{"id":10639,"date":"2017-10-02T12:15:46","date_gmt":"2017-10-02T19:15:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/?p=10639"},"modified":"2018-05-15T09:55:58","modified_gmt":"2018-05-15T16:55:58","slug":"ask-julie-fast-how-do-you-remain-organize-and-focus-in-your-thinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/ask-julie-fast-how-do-you-remain-organize-and-focus-in-your-thinking\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Julie Fast: How do you remain organized and focused in your thinking?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_10640\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10640\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-10640 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head-300x135.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"135\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head-150x68.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-10640\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A new way to focus my attention! \u00a0I am trying to focus on just one sporting event when faced with a gazillion TVs in a sports bar. HEHE.\u00a0<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>ANSWER: \u00a0\u00a0I don&#8217;t remain organized and focused in my thinking. It&#8217;s a daily and sometimes hourly struggle for me to focus. I have to get help in order to get my work done.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m\u00a0<strong><em>extremely<\/em> <\/strong>unfocused- it&#8217;s pathological and is a struggle very single day. My manager Vy is a life savor. She makes charts that I work hard to follow. I cannot write books without help.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m getting worse as I get older and there is no question that my head injury from 2012 doesn&#8217;t help. This is not meant to be depressing. It is simply my reality. When I&#8217;m stable, I just deal with it. When I&#8217;m depressed, it&#8217;s my #1 worry. How are we supposed to work and support ourselves when our bipolar brains give us so much trouble? ARG!!!!<\/p>\n<p>I CAN say that I truly use the tips in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Get-Done-When-Youre-Depressed\/dp\/1592577067\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Get it Done When You&#8217;re Depressed<\/a>. I use them every single day and they help me focus as best I can. So, I do have moments of focus and organization, but it&#8217;s hard work and I use everything I write about in my books. Get it Done saves me. It was written for depression, but it works for ADD\/ADHD symptoms just as well. Anxiety is also a big reason for focus problems. Sometimes it hurts to work. I was much more able to work in the past. My goal these days is getting as much work done as possible when I&#8217;m stable so that I have a buffer on the tough days. I wish I could tell you that I focus just fine and that I have a secret so that you can end your focus problems. I have not found this yet. For now, it&#8217;s management. I am still here, still writing and still getting things done, so something is working. \u00a0You can do it as well!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Get-Done-When-Youre-Depressed\/dp\/1592577067\/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=&amp;sr=\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-10627 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/get-it-done-cover-2-201x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"201\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/get-it-done-cover-2-201x300.jpg 201w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/get-it-done-cover-2-101x150.jpg 101w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/get-it-done-cover-2.jpg 232w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I have a theory. I believe that many of us with bipolar disorder are innately restless. It is an issue that affects our work and relationships. Here is my blog for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bphope.com\/blog\/why-am-i-so-restless\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bp Magazine: \u00a0Life with Bipolar: Why Am I So Restless? on the topic.<\/a><\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head.jpg\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10640\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-10640 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head-300x135.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"135\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/swivel-head-150x68.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-10640\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A new way to focus my attention! I am trying to focus on just one sporting event when faced with a gazillion TVs in a sports bar. HEHE. <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>ANSWER: I don&#8217;t remain organized and focused in my thinking. It&#8217;s a daily and sometimes hourly struggle for me to focus. I have to get help in order to get my work done.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m extremely unfocused- it&#8217;s pathological and is a struggle very single day. My manager Vy is a life savor. She makes charts that I work hard to follow. I cannot write books without help.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m getting worse as I get older and there is no question that my head injury from 2012 doesn&#8217;t help. This is not meant to be depressing. It is simply my reality. When I&#8217;m stable, I just deal <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/ask-julie-fast-how-do-you-remain-organize-and-focus-in-your-thinking\/\">[ Read More ]<\/a><!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><!-- AddThis Share Buttons generic via filter on get_the_excerpt --><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10639"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10639"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10639\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10738,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10639\/revisions\/10738"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10639"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10639"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bipolarhappens.com\/bhblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10639"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}